Playing with some friends over lan in our apartment and we can't figure it out. It's awful having to go in a trade windown, put up your item, and then waiting to see if your friend has better or not. Surely this is in the game, it has become a standard by now, so what am I missing? How do I do it? --- The Game. When you think about the game you lose the game. You just lost the game. Welcome to the game.