Hmmmmm. Denial. I'll be playing dark souls soon just for you, TC. I'm not guilty. What a crock. I mean, hollow's are living right? And the bosses? You, my enemy are a spree killer. The Gulty will pay the price! On a serious note. invading is part of the game. Its oh so satisfying to slay a Darkwraith, then invade him and kill hm again. If you dont like it, return the game.
I keep waiting for Aldous Huxley's ghost to show up and say " I told you So!"
You just have to get better at the game. I used to drop a load in my boxers whenever I got invaded, then I died shortly after. I got good, I became an invader, and now I prefer invaders to the average player. I haven't lost to an invader in a very long time, and I appreciate them because they are a guaranteed 1v1, versus the people I invade who are always rolling with two phantoms who will all back-stab fish and then spam taunts over my body like they're actually good.