Any "commend pls" remark gives me less reason to actually commend them.
Heck, what am I supposed to commend them for? There's no 'played well' option to vote for at the end of a match, so there's no reason for me to give a commendation.
If you were a cool guy all around then you shouldn't need to ask for validation of any sort, because the people who appreciated your demeanour would've given you a commendation anyway. Asking for one implies that you think there should be some incentive for generally not being a butt-hole. --- http://i.imgur.com/qgqVy.jpg "Don't wanna know...where the sinners go..."