Thanks again, but there is another problem. I already finished the main quest and the Jarl os winterhold is in windhelm and the dialogue wont access, he keeps rambling about losing the war, and Its impossible to give him the Helm.
Under the "Bugs" section in that link, it says that if you equip that Helm before speaking to the Jarl, the dialogue option is available. A console command to proceed further in the quest is also listed at the bottom of the page.
"Take your best shot, Flatlander woman". JC Denton.