and when will you recieve it if i send it right now and when will the system give me my items?
Just to make things clear, you have to equip matoda's pawn with the items, release his pawn in the rift, then rest at an inn to update the server. When matoda received your items, he will hire your pawn, equip them on your pawn, release, and rest at inn to update the server. You will get your items the next time you rest.
When giving matoda multiple sets of items, make sure you send one set (one item per equipment slot) at a time, don't dump everything at one go, the items might be lost.
Hire pawn. Equip items. Allow 2-3 mins to pass before resting.
Rest. Allow 2-3 mins to pass. Head to rift. Dismiss pawn.
Return from rift. Allow 3-5 mins to pass. Rest.
Person has to then wait 10-15 mins to rest in order to accept items.
Now here's the kicker: That "Cannot connect to server" message? It can be the thing to screw this all up- even with all the waiting for the server to update. So, Matoda in this case needs to know EXACTLY what you are sending, so after these steps are done, he can check the storage to confirm.