The real question- why are you trying to play with randoms?
I play with ransoms because no one on my friends list is cool enough for Borderlands 2.
Ive met some cool people playing with randoms. My one rule is You get 1 min to respond or you get kicked its . That and if you sound way to young to be playing this game you get kicked( trust me it may sound mean but you most likely have never had some kids mom jump on xbox and yell at you for swearing)
You don't have daddy issues! Now Luke Sky Walker that guy has daddy issues.