Lol. Sorry I just had to weigh in on this one. Here's the deal, whether wars are in the bible or not, the bible says "God hates violence". And all the violence he condoned had a reason behind it. It wasn't arbitrary.
That being said, how far you choose to indulge in violence (of any sort, not just against women) is up to YOUR conscience. God gave everyone free will. Which means no Christian has the right to force their beliefs on anyone, or to insult the tastes of someone who doesn't agree. TC you're being very unchristian right now.
The bible also says we each have our own accounts to render with God. It also says let he without judgement cast the first stone, worry about the rafter in your own eye before worrying about the splinter in your brother's, etc.
In other words, you do you TC. Let others do them. Quit judging and denouncing.