No video game will make you more or less of a man based on how you play. I really hate it too, but in the end you have to accept it's only a game and getting too upset over things like this is immature. I'll admit I've raged and complained over things like this... I still do, but you have to see put things in perspective or else you won't enjoy the game.
PSN: Kazuhira07 Currently playing: Persona 4 The Golden