Wow, that's a large post using a phone. Anyway, I almost always start out my sessions playing S&D. If I find that I have ADD or I'm just being impatient then I'll jump to a faster paced game mode. There are a lot of goofs playing S&D though which can be a turn off for people new to the gametype. I also usually mute everyone on the opposite team too just to spare me the headache.
yeah, i was car pooling so i spent about 20 minutes typing that OP lol. I am home now though on a nice laptop = )
Last night there was a guy who i played against several times (he quit out a few times too)
He was the type of person who interrupts you in the middle of a conversation just to tell you to "Shut the **** up *****" lol