Oh so basically you want 3 people to be playing a FFA and have the killcams of player 2 and 3 shown when those two kill each other and compare them, right? So that there is no host interaction other than he is actually the host.
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He said leave when you are behind in the lobby. I've been doing that since the release because I know the killcam shows the other players view and still haven't found a good lobby, so I left permanently.