You should be able to find what settings the presets create and then tweak them to get something inbetween like you want...check this page for more
It's the encoding compression preset, not a quality preset. It can't be adjusted beyond the options given in Xsplit/OBS.
The presets just generate a pre made command line with the flag values already set to some ready made numbers. If you would just read the page you'd know that too. The numbers are not unchangeable, and I know OBS lets you give it custom command line values too. Just get the values from medium and slow and try going halfway between them. The only problem is that the values may be linked together in some way to where certain ratios of values work better than others.
Has all the command line flags set by each preset. For some reason it says "no change" by medium, which isn't that helpful for this case. You can still probably find out the medium w/ x264.exe --fullhelp like it says on that first page I linked.
Alright, thanks for the links. I'll read up a bit more, but from the reading I'd done previously it seemed as though it would be more rewarding to stick with default settings and venturing in would be more of a nightmare than an eventual good balance. I'll tinker with it more in the future.
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