I think the responses you'll get are kind of biased, because right now most people on GFAQs are people who can't get into the game, and ergo are of the type to hit the, "I'd NEVER AFK, not even if my LIFE DEPENDED ON IT" poll option.
"I never apologize. I'm sorry, that's just the way I am." Hurr durr.
Honestly, and I hate to say this. I'm not logging out anymore. The first few days It took me (at most) 20 mins or so of constant 0 spam to get in a queue, then the game. Annoying, sure, but doable. Today I'm pushing over two HOURS. Got a queue ONCE and then it gave me that new lobby error...
Hell no. I logged out at inns each night very diligently so my fellow players can have one more slot free to log in, but no..this is no longer about being courteous or considerate to your fellow gamers, this is complete and total b.s to wait OVER AN HOUR to log in.
I got in and played for hours last night - I don't mind logging out and letting others play. The servers will get fixed eventually and I have no need to reach end-game in the first week. Not gonna die if I don't play one day.
I want to play when I want to play. If I'm logged in (which I am now) I simply /afk and come back when I'm ready to play. I don't see anything wrong with it because the next guy would do the same thing