skiguy1981 posted...AlkalineKitten posted...
so what did your mom do to make her the bad guy
She was embezzling money from the company she worked for and scamming money from my family (both sides). Actually, when they first got divorced my dad "was the bad guy" for "having an affair", which ended up not being true. I lived with her/she had custody for a few years, and she would piss away the child support on frivolous things (like said gifts, in hindsight) and I was a latchkey kid to the extreme: I looked forward to weekends in 5th and 6th grade because she would go out clubbing with friends and scamming guys, and that meant I got $100 for food and Blockbuster rentals and didn't see her from Friday morning until Monday morning. The few times she was home she'd be crashed out with a hangover.
This lifestyle actually was detrimental to me, as my grades tanked in 6th grade and I used to break and enter, shoplift, etc. and was sent to live with my dad "as punishment". Turns out it was the best thing ever on every level of my life. Except for the criminal aspect, I did keep up the shoplifting well into college, just for the challenge.
When I was older I discovered she cashed out the majority of my and my sister's savings bonds which were intended for school. A few times I found credit cards or other debtors chasing me or my dad; she basically used us for identity theft. A bunch of other things, but it's mostly all money. She is the ultimate con artist, and actually does go state to state scamming employers or co-workers she preys on. I also had an older woman contact me saying she was my older sister from my mother's previous marriage, which puts a whole different spin on the life she presented to my father before they met. That was awkward, but also not my problem.
/lifecast
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You goddamn kids had best be gracious with the merch money you spend, 'cause for you I wont ever have rough sex with Molly Connolly again.