Does being with the same mentor effect that? I plan on getting this game with a friend but we want be with different mentors to have different early game quests. If i do that will i just not see my friend for ages?
Mentor doesn't matter. I play with two friends and the three of us all took different mentors.
Like what has been said, make sure you're both on the same server and make sure you're searching your friend's character's name, not his PSN name. --- Have you accepted Raspberyl as your loli and savior?