I purposely made sure she was in my group and nothing happened.
I will just play it out and if she attacks...oh well.
From what I've been gathering, it seems like the only time it can be brought up is when she asks if I have seen any other abominations and you can respond that there was conner...but I had already done that conversation before choosing to enter the fade(got to him, then went back and did the circle quest) so I guess if time permits, I can load an earlier save. too far ahead to do it now though.
once something becomes semi-popular the more "hardcore" fans have to find reason to show they are bigger fans than the average person.