Being a passive jungler vs an aggresive jungler can be one ofthe biggest headaches in solo Q, besides that top is usually the answer since it's so isolated.
You pretty much hit the nail on the head. You get whined at for not ganking enough compared to the other guy. Getting countered top really sucks unless your jungler helps you tip the balance early on. In certain matchups I'd say that getting counterpicked mid might be worse though. If you can't stop that akali, tf, ahri from farming up you can bet that they'll also be getting double kills on bot.
Top is only bad if your counter picked with Darius (which is the counter pick to almost everyone >.>).
Mid is by far the worst to be counter picked in because it can easily doom spiral in a number of ways.
1. You lose your lane straight up and feed the opponent. 2. You manage to fight it out, but get pressured too much of the jungler who can easily access your lane from either side to aid their mid. 3. You fend all that off, but your lane is still the easiest to get assistance from either top or bottom to invade your lane.
All of those can happen even when your not counter picked, but its far worse if you are.
The aftermath of losing your lane is the worst in mid too because Mid is just like top in terms of how easily you can farm it solo, but has the advantage of being able to strike out into top or bottom lane easily, making it easier for those lanes to be lost too.
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Have fun eating that blind, poison, and ignite. You won't be getting any farm either. Late game you will take Teemo, but during the laning phase, **** your life. And you can only flash every 300 seconds.... So what are you gonna do for those other 299 seconds you don't have flash? And you act as if Teemo doesn't also have flash and a speed boost.