I am currently in a campaign where I am playing a female character, I am finding it difficult to court anyone, let alone marry, all are saying that I need to be beautiful and ladylike, or that they are interested in another woman, any suggestions?
Some men just want a wife who'll sit at the castle and be pretty, not one who leads men in war, with these men renown, relationship etc don't matter they will never marry you. ---1 http://card.mygamercard.net/nxe/Jonny2284.png
I haven't found any luck either. Jarl Bulba is "Devoted" to me but apparently has his eye on others. Then I found one of his rivals Ex Count, Jarl Regis, is chasing after the same girls as him so they're mad at each other. Then out of the blue Regis asks to marry me, I'm going for an honorable game and he's about as honorless as you can get so I told him to wait.
I hear when you make your companions vassals you can marry them, so try Alayen or whatever his name is. He's supposed to be a noble. I'm considering doing that... But now that I'm Queen and own the land of two wiped out factions I don't see the point anymore.
I noticed one thing though, if someone says "I will be your most adherent admirer" instead of the general goodbye, they're probably able to marry you. Too bad they all seem to be ugly, fiefless, honorless, useless people! --- "Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You can't stare at it long, it's too risky. You get a sense of it then you look away."