Of those three, I'd pick Rune Factory 4, although all three are good choices. RF4 is a very long game; I'm only in the beginning of the second arc of three and I already have 70+ hours logged and, from what I read, most clock in around 100-200+ hours into the game.
If you like Animal Crossing, you may also like Disney Magical World, which comes out in April and is basically Animal Crossing meets Disney (with a little bit of RF4's action RPG elements thrown in).
I also second most of NathanisDrake's choices, except Senran Kagura Burst (which just doesn't appeal to me).
I recommend Rune Factory 4 over Harvest Moon, and this Rune Factory can last over 100 hours.
I'd add Fire Emblem Awakening to your list.
But I want to learn towards Ocarina of Time 3D just because you've never played the original, you should have a good time with it. But I suppose out of all the games on the table OOT3D will generally have the least amount of play time.
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