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You need to talk to her every chance you get and never take her on a mission (for some reason that makes it impossible for her to love you). Then in the Mages tower make sure you fine "Wynne's lingerie" it will give you +24 with her and initiates the love dialogue.
If you believed that you're crazy, and why would you want to have sex with Wynne anyway? That's just gross.