Why does my sim always refuse proposal?

  1. Relationship meter and mood meter are at max yet when i try one of them to propose, it ALWAYS gets rejected. i tried everything i could even making aphrodisiac food!

    User Info: happy-horroree

    happy-horroree - 8 years ago
  2. Clarification Request::
    Have you made the Wedding Beanie and the Aloha Wedding Leu?If not,make it,I don`t know when you unlock it,though

    User Info: Blasvr07

    Blasvr07 - 8 years ago

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  1. No Guys All You Need Is 2 Different Gender Sims And Their Personalty Must Be Maxed Nice And Playful Ok Then When You Get The Romatic Things Just Keep Doing The Romantic Hug And The Serenade Ok When Propose Os There Never Mind It Just Wait Till It's Your Crush Then You Can Propose The Other Sim Will Accept Then A Messege Will Pop UP And Say Congrats "Sims Name " Have Accepted Your Propose Then When You Open The Relesionship You Will Find Two Rings On The Sim That You Have Married By The Way It's Better In Sims 2 Cause They Don't Have To Be Maxed Nice And Maxed Playful Any Way I've Tried This Way Like A Million times And It Worked Trust Me

    Hope That Helped

    User Info: CoolWhiteAngel

    CoolWhiteAngel - 7 years ago 2 0


  1. For a sim to sucessfully accept a proposal they both need to be wearing the Wedding Beanie and the Aloha Wedding Lei. I have unlocked them, but , sadly I forgot how...

    User Info: MissGina

    MissGina - 8 years ago 0 6
  2. What do i need to make the wedding beanie & the aloha wedding leu?????????????????????????help me i've been at it for years!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! not kidding!!!!in fack im so not kidding rhit now i've never been so sereas in my hole life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    User Info: arrrrrrrrrrr

    arrrrrrrrrrr - 8 years ago 2 3
  3. For the beanie and aloha wedding lue all you need is about 10-20 white hibiscues

    User Info: jumjummju

    jumjummju - 8 years ago 2 3
  4. Duh!
    Weeding Beanie and Aloha Wedding Lue.
    Maybe they unlocked from your sim's love relationship.

    User Info: popingpopcorn

    popingpopcorn - 8 years ago 1 2
  5. Guess she only likes you as a friend X-D

    User Info: sinrah6

    sinrah6 - 8 years ago 0 4
  6. Well i guess I can give the detailed reasons for this.

    I read everyones posted answers and found them half right. I tried this proposal thing over and over again. To my surprise, I found some interesting things out.

    Here is what I found out:

    1.] You do need to make and have the Wedding Beanie and the Wedding Lei.

    a. ] To unlock these. You have to keep openning areas on the islands.

    b.] You need to have enough Creativity Skills to make them and enough white hibiscuses to make both of them.

    c. ] Once you get the plans openned and get them made. You do not have to wear them if you do not want to. You can get married to another Sims without wearing these. But you must at least have the Wedding Beanie and the Wedding Lei are in your inventory.

    2. ] Relationship must be best friends or 76% and higher; which ever comes first.

    3.] The moods have always played a role in all the Sim games as to whether or not your Sim is excepted in the matter of marriage. Either your Sim is too tired or the other Sim is too tired or something.

    But it has always been as long as all of the moods are max or full for both Sims; you get to say yippie when they accept the marriage proposal.

    With this game, it is no different. Moods count as well as how high the relationship is.

    4.] You can make a meal with pretty pink hearts/ special effects if you like. But it is not needed. You can get married without making a special effects meal.

    5. ] Reasons for failing to get the other Sim to marry your Sim and how to fix it..

    a. ] This may make you say, " I' ll be darn.Wow.! '' and make you laugh. But I did find it interesting and funny.

    If the Sim was holding their nose and waving a hand in front of their face; then has a smirk upon their face. Guess what they want. Yep, they are tired of swimming and want you to build a shower. They need and want a shower.

    So get those Shower plans open and build them one. So they can sing and be happy.

    b. ] You forgot to make the Wedding Beanie and the Wedding Lei or you do not have the plans openned yet. So get busy and get them open and make them. If you are not sure of the color that they are, they are white. Not blue or purple or red. They must be white.

    Creativity is gotten through the making clothes [ Making shoes is a good way to get this skill, they always wear out the most.] , creating musical instruments and playing them, making scupltures and paintings on the crafting workbench.

    c. ] Again, Moods. If you waited long enough. There are some fun ways to raise the moods up without cheating or using cheat codes.

    One way is to kill off the Sim and make the Death Daisy potion. It is quick and easy as long as you do not kill off the Sim you chose to be the group leader. Otherwise, it is game over. All the other one can be killed off and raised from the dead with all moods maxed.

    Now if your not in the killing mood yourself. Then here is another handy way to getting all moods maxed to get the marriage proposal accepted.

    If you have all the islands unlocked and have found the Radio and the Transmitter. Go to Crystal Island and get any and all Sims abducted.

    Enjoy your game.
    Hope this helps.
    Have a good day!

    User Info: abler2005

    abler2005 (Expert) - 8 years ago 2 2
  7. Don't be that long, use the "all Plans" cheat. Then at the uniform it's all unlocked too.
    Hope this helps

    User Info: popingpopcorn

    popingpopcorn - 7 years ago 0 3
  8. I had A LOT of trouble with this too. Here is what you need to do (this is MUCH easier with cheat codes) :

    1. Get the two sims to fall in love by building the relationships above level 80 (you need to get the relationship to level 100 and use some romantic socials for a successful proposal)

    2. Unlock the marriage beanie and wedding lei (Those may not be the correct names)

    3. Get a high enough creativity level to make them

    4. Collect a lot of white hibiscus flowers (enough to make two of each)

    5. Make one of each (the beanie and lei) for each sim (the sim your sim is marrying and your sim)

    6. Make the two sims wear the beanie and lei

    7. put both sims in a good mood (the max all motives cheat makes this go by faster)

    8. proposal time!!!!

    If the proposal was rejected, make sure both sims are happy and the relationship is at 100. Use some more romantic socials if needed. I am also aware of a glitch in some disks that doesn't let you propose AT ALL, which sucks because you have to buy a new copy.

    I hope I helped with the proposal problems!!!

    User Info: simsmaster1

    simsmaster1 - 6 years ago 0 1

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